10 things that instantly make a man more attractive

1. Kindness to all, but especially those who are less fortunate:

The true test of character is how a man treats those who add no value to his life. The more welcoming you are, the sexier you become.

2. The Ability to laugh with ease:

Nothing says 'joyful human' like a smile that's easy to trigger. Who doesn't love an easy going soul?

3. Ambition with balance:

It's very easy to find a driven human, thanks to the hustle culture we've grown up in. It's difficult to find a man who can balance work conversation with lighter conversations.

Talk about goals, talk about ambition. But also talk about food & puppies with equal passion.

Be multidimensional.

4. Ability to stay present:

The easiest way to charm people. Listen with completeness. Switch off from all other thoughts.

Switch off from all the people around you. And focus on staying with the person speaking to you. Nothing says 'respect' the way GENUINE eye contact and attention does.

5. Etiquette:

The magic words like 'please', 'excuse me', 'pardon me', 'sorry'.

The subtle 'movement rules' like letting a lady pass through a door before you.

Remember gents, be the reason people say, “Chivalry is NOT dead”.

The small things go a long way.

 6. Skills that expose your artistic side:

Any man is more attractive if he knows how to

- cook or

- play an instrument or

- write beautifully.

You know how a footballer who can attack AND defend is more valued in the game?

 A man who can switch between mind and heart is the real-life version of that.

Expose your mind through your career success. Expose your heart through your skill sets. Break out of the pack.

7. Conveying emotion:

Men talk to other men through words. Words, analysis and direct commands are great for the workplace and great when you're relaxing with your bros.

If you wish to win a girl's heart, learn how to communicate feelings. Use your words to express emotions, love, insecurities & intensity of thought. Be a memorable man.

Be remembered through your words. Get better at writing. You'll automatically get better at speaking.

8. Compassion:

Why do girls love guys who are great with dogs/babies? Because both babies and animals sense 'vibes' much stronger than humans do. And women sense vibes much stronger than men do. 

You'll only be good with babies or dogs if :-

i. You have a genuinely good vibe (You mean well, you CARE)

ii. You can sense vibes as well

 People may find you cute/hot for the way you look. People fall for you because of your vibe.

9. Respect & calm:

If you're someone who gets angry or someone who gets anxious easily... fix it.

Work out, eat clean, meditate. These are serious red flags. Not just for women. But even professionally.

A man who has fixed these aspects early in life is way more attractive than the rest. Your relationships, your career and especially your attractiveness will shoot through the roof when you learn to control your mind.

10. Depth and mystery:

Read. Listen to podcasts. You can choose whatever subjects you enjoy. But ensure you dive deep into any subject you choose.

Why? When you're an expert on 2 or more subjects, you become the most memorable person in the room. Combined with the ability to communicate emotion, this is a trait that will floor people.

Subject expertise conveys passion, analytical thinking and DRIVE. 3 of the most attractive traits of any human. Oh and also, you will never run out of topics to speak about.

Keep people engaged and/or stimulated through your words and learnings. Then witness your life change.

Confidence is an outcome of knowledge.